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posted by frozendrack

I have sereously hit the lowest point. I am so freeking unwanted. I went to a basketball game and soon after the game started some of my friends came in and sat by me.( one of which is on cruches) then a bunch of jocks came and sat by us. Soon after the first quarter ended the jocks moved over to the other side of the gym. that was ok i didnt care for them that much. Then close to the end of half time my friend had to go do something. So it was just me and the crip. Soon the crip looks back at me and says, " i think im going to take a walk." AAAAAAAAA. you do not know pathetic untill a kid with a fuked up ankle looks back and says im going to take a walk and leaves you alone. I was so upset by that, that i came home and started looking for a penpal. I found a few bodybuilding typs so i sent them messages. I havent heard a single thing back. O well that my fuking life.

posted by bignready

it's ok.vent.get it all out.we still like you

posted by TomSizeMore

God that sounds so much like me when I was in school. U have to understand that being the "outcast" is one of the greatest things you can do for yourself. Trust me on this, I got really lucky and found out at an early age that girls who aren't all into the "thing to do" actually have substance. They are the best girls to get to know. If you just continue doing your own thing and working to better yourself, whether it be in grades or in the gym, you are going to have so many "Secret" crushes it won't even be funny. However, always remember who your true friends are and never stand them up for hangin with the "cool crowd". This will only cause hurt and misery.

Work on yourself and others will be drawn to you. It's a fact of life that people are drawn to people going places in life. Don't lose hope, just stick to what you are good at and don't try to change your personality. U are unique and that's obviously a rare find.

posted by John H

well said tom, i agree wholeheartedly. i used to be an outcast in school, but i did a few things that the "cool kids" noticed and for a while i was one of them, for a short short time though because i found out how as a whole they seemed to lack any sort of real self or personality, and i stayed with the friends i already had and liked. being "cool" is all a mindset, i mean who decides it anyways? the cool kids? why is their opinion any more important than your own? conformity in society is a very large part of highschool life and if you can learn to look past that then you've beaten the system. the popular people, or for example the "jocks" you mentioned may seem to stand out as a large part of the population in your school but the fact is that their a minority compared to the whole. trust me theres a lot of people around you who feel a lot like you do right now. cheer up, once school is over none of it matters anymore anyways. at all. trust me.

posted by regino007

Back in scholl I was the one who hung out with everyone.I was with the "in" crowd and went to all the parties.But I was also the guy who would talk the geeks,the headbangers and the jocks.I had no particluar care about ppl.I was liked by all and remember when I was a freahman and was the outcast myself.As I grew up and became one of the popluar one I always remembered what it was like not being accepted.But as you grow up all that means nothing.
Who you are is only shown by what you do.I still run into ppl I knew when I was a freahman and their reaction to what I look like is amazing.........and rewarding.

posted by nattybber

Hey man i completely understand how you feel, being a teacher I see stuff like that every single day. I was like that too believe it or not my 5th year in college, I had played college ball for 4 years adn hung out with my teamates for those years adn then suddenly i didn't have them anymore the ones who were still there were still playing and gone all teh time and everyone else had graduated so I was pretty much by myself, thats when I found teh weight room, thats the greatest thing that ever happened to me. I just burried myself in weights and eating and now I have a whole new life style, just find a passion whether it be bodybuilding or powerlifting or whatever and dedicate yourself to it. Always walk around with your head up with confidence act like you know something everyone else doesn't. In the long run you will be a better person I promise.

posted by bignready

yup,they're all correct.just find something you're passionate about and excel in it.later in life school won't mean a thing.i miss high school.i was a headbanger and at that particular time we were popular.glad i'm not in school now cuz i think it's the hip hop turn

posted by Aaar0n

Seriously Frozen, don't worry about it. I went through that faze many times. It's not a good feeling, i know, but, it's life.
I was one of the cool kids in highschool. Untill I realized what jackasses my friends were, I stopped being a sheep. I did my own thing and didn't play their games. I didn't do what they did. I pretty much alienated myself from them. I made new friends.. I hung out with the 'not so popular people'. And to tell you the truth, they were better people inside by far. Like they already said, remember who your true friends are. Don't take shit from anyone.

posted by AMERFOOTBALL

drack,
these guys are right. who cares if popular kids suck. When I was in high school, i thought i wanted to be one of the popular kids too. Well its now 4 years later, and what are the popular kids doing now? I don't ****in know, and i don't care. I've got a good core of friends and a good job, hot girlfriend, etc. i guess the point im trying to make and these guys are too is that while it may feel shitty now, just keep pushing and use your energy to be great at something instead of feeling negative. Keep doing what you like to do and friends/girls will come to you. And the best part is that they will like you for you and you won't have to worry about trying to impress them so they'll be your friend. Hang in there dude!

posted by Robfromny

this is a good group of guys and my estrogen is prolly out of control cuz i wanna cry and hug sumone lol ;) haha

posted by canibalistic_js

Story of my life.

posted by frozendrack

thank you all for the support. when im big and buff walking in the ten year reunion with hundreds hanging out my pockits. i konw exactly what i can say to them. And it isnt hi. Im feeling a lot better. thanks again all. :thumbs:

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