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posted by A.B

She went out last night with a friend to go get coffee. This was at 8 pm. I waited and waited for her to come home, to you know, get lucky. :D

well midnight hits, she not home

2 in the morning comes a long. she isn't here.

at this time iwas sort of getting pissed off but wasn't really because I was playing Fight Night for Xbox. (kick as game though)

and then as soon as i shut off my game my girl rolls in at 3am all hammered.... :mad:

and today i am ****in pissed.

no phone call sayin she was going to be late or anything.

posted by regino007

Do you 2 live together?If so you have the right to be pissed.If not........well you know.

posted by Storm

I hate no communication...

posted by shortz

Either way, I think a phone call would have been nice also. When you tell someone you're going to be home early then stay out all night, it's a little nerve racking that you don't know if anything happened to her.

posted by TheChosen1

Bro, I hate to be the one to say it but it doesn't take more than an hour to enjoy a cup or two of coffee with a "friend".

I don't know where you live, A.B., but here in California, there's a radio DJ that preaches stuff like that. Basically, he says that if your woman is out all night "with the girls", you can rest assure that she's either looking for another man or already has one. And no calls? Yep, it looks that way, bro. I'm sorry. :banghead:

Check the DJ out at his site, if you'd like: www.blowmeuptom.com

posted by A.B

your scaring the shit out of me chosen1!!!

posted by shortz

I wouldn't jump to those conclusions yet. I think that if she made a habit out of it, then I would consider that, but if it was just this once, then I think just letting her know you were worried and a call to let you know she was alright was in order.

posted by TheChosen1

Sorry A.B., but don't go out and hire "Cheaters" just yet...LOL. I'd listen to Shortz first.

posted by punk_bbuilder

i hate when that happens...my ex used to pull it..then i pulled it on her. Very nerve racking and yes it pisses you off.

posted by A.B

well, heres my update.

i am not too upset anymore, this was basically the first time this has ever happened so I will let it go this time

posted by G-S

You married? If not, I don't see the problem with her hangin out w/ a girlfriend or 2, so long as you knew about it. But, since you didn't, I'd be pissed too.

posted by DangerousG

I try to get mine to go out and she won't.
In a way I am lucky she isn't a bar fly (nor drink) and I don't have this happen to me. Hell I'd give her money to go out once in a while.

I do go out and she call me every friggin 1/2 hr "when you coming home? you with a girl?"
I agree she should be polite and called so you don't worry about her. I probley would be pissed off if my g/f never told me she was going out and let me know thou coming home drunk at 3 am.

posted by bigcmonster

Keep this in mind A.B

Screw me once, its your fault. Screw me twice, its my fault!

posted by Scorpio

Perhaps I'm petty, but if it happened like that to me, I'd give it back to her the same way, and when she's pissed, I'd remind her that it was ok for her to do it, so if she doesn't like it done to her then she should not be doing it to you... I've been happily married 11 years, however I get my points across one way or another.

posted by A.B

i was thinking about getting her back by doin the same thing. but i just dont want to go through the trouble. she wears the pants :D :laughing:

posted by hardbodies5

trying to get her back will only cause more problems then it is worth. remember two wrongs don't make it right. just like some of the others said, communicate, let her know you were worried about her safety, and a call would have been nice to put your worries to rest. then tell her you hope she had a good time with her friend

posted by shortz

Two wrongs don't make a right, but it sure makes you feel better. :cool:

posted by A.B

yeah. quick update people.

i have not retaliated but i have let her know what to do next time something like this might happen. a simple phone call

posted by Smallguy

I remember one time I was supposed to call my gf but got too drunk and forgot damn did I catch shit for that.

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