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posted by frozendrack

I am maddly in love with the girl i work with. She is soo amazing. The only problem is that she had a whorable boyfriend. She has never been on a date with him that she didnt pay for. she had to buy the prom tickits, and is paying for the meal before. Hes a worthless bum. hes flunking school. He told her that if they broke up he would join the army and hoped he died in combat. Yeah freeky. At first i didnt think she liked me, but someone at work asked her and she just smiled and changed the subject really quick. Im crazy about her. I turned down a dance with a hottie at my brother wedding this weekend because she called and told somone at the reception she was going to come. She showed up like 2 min. after the last dance. kinda said but she huged me a lot. Guys i NEED to find a way to save her from this guy. hopefully before the prom. Any ideas?

posted by goldentornado22

talk to her a whole lotta. lotta compliments. ask her how shes doing. bring little things in for her. and most importantly be a gentleman!

posted by Cabral69er

Just be yourself when your around her and be there for her if she needs anything. She will see that you are better than that other douche bag.

posted by Stricken

Or kick his ass :D...that might not work but if you want, give it a try :P

posted by canibalistic_js

Sounds to me like she's giving you hints so be bold and take em. She confides in you and is telling you this crap so stand up and see if your a friend, a lay, or future boyfriend.

posted by John H

i hope you were joking, cuz thats possibly the worst way to win a girl ever... if i get in a fight and any girl sees it, i might as well write them off as a lost cause no matter how the fight goes

posted by bignready

i say wait.let this thing with her boyfriend end on it's own.don't be the one to meddle in.if it ends then go for it.

posted by brandozzz

if she HAD a horrible boyfreind then she no longer has one right ?

posted by Captainhowie175

dude, take her out for dinner and a movie if you want tell her that its a "Just friends date" and pay for everything. if she is smart she will see that she is worth more than she is being treated by this guy. now the problem is that girls kinda like to stick with the helpless little puppy(bum boyfriend) i think it makes them feel like they are doing thier womanly duties or something. point is--chicks are wierd, just find a good time to tell her how you feel and go for it. oh and dont rip on the bum, I promise she wont like it

posted by tknight4305

I say...give her the attention she wants....i bet she is craving attention...make her feel like she is important because if her boyfriend really does all of the things that you said and you give her attention and make her feel like she is loved,wanted, etc. she will fall all over you. I have seen it happen MANY times....just be patient with her because if her and her boyfriend have been together for a while she wont drop him over night.....it will be a slow process...but just give her time....

posted by AMERFOOTBALL

dude, that is not a problem, its an opportunity. If he really is the piece of shit you describe, all you have to do is tell her how you feel and treat her right. She'll come around bro...

posted by frozendrack

has.. sorry that was a typo. Thanks for all the help guys. I think im starting to win. She told me that shes braking up with him after prom. she would do it before, but she says that would be to mean.

posted by estray

Some girls just like that bad boy type. They think they can tame them. Haha. Theyre always wrong. Anyhow, be careful with the "friends" approach cause thats all you may end up being. Put it out there up front. Dont **** around. If she digs ya, youre set. If not, dont waste a bunch of time chasin her.

posted by munequita

ok now a point of view from a girl. I was in a similar situation with my ex. He was such an ass.. I lost all my friends and had no life. He completely took over me and treated me like I was a last minute whenever I have time to see you sort of girlfriend. I thought that no one wanted me cause he would always comment on how I look, that I was not that attractive. That i needed to gain weight that I needed to lose the muscle.. so on and so on. Well, I got some advice from a friend who opened up my eyes like REALLY REALLY BIG AND WIDE!!!.. i got some sense knocked into me and I finally left the guy. I was with him for 8 yrs. A long time.. but my friend helped me out a lot. What she really needs now is someone to knock some sense into her and show her that she is worth a lot more than the way he is treating her. If you are there for her she will appreciate it a lot and she will welcome you openly to her. Trust me .. it will pay off... :) IMO !!!!

posted by Storm

Best advice above..Not to sound gay but bening sesnistive to her needs is what will work..Even if it involves you not going with her to prom..Being there as a support is what will open her eys hopefully..Also consider she is letting the guy treat her that way and regardless of who you think she is until you spend alot of one on one with her you really don't know how she is..

Having an open mind and not lowering yourself down to tip the favor only lets you win even if you lose her keep that in mind seeing a bad realtionship does not mean being with you will make it good for the both of you sympathy can cloud reason..

Listen to munequita a womans viewpoint is always good to have workin for you..Again be a friend first and see where it goes form there don't rush it that is where mistakes will be made...Hope that helps...Storm

posted by canibalistic_js

I think you should be honest and say hey I'm getting the hinting vibe and want to know if I should act on it.

posted by John H

i agree completely with estray here. be very careful how far you take the "friends" approach. its an easy way to get burned if she doesnt know how you feel right off the bat, because once she gets comfortable with you as a friend it can be hard to make the jump without it being too awkward. ive been there before

posted by cwshorns

i think you should ask her if you could just "play tips" or "motor boat" with her

posted by goldentornado22

dont forget about flowers. females like flowers

posted by Stricken

yes, it was a joke. thats why there was the :D and the lol. I know it doesnt work to get a girlfriend but sometimes it does help to get laid, depending on the type of female watchin

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